Lady Love Forever

Mother's Day is celebrated with the most imperfect kids and insane partner in most of all the Indian Families across the Globe

Well, it was Mother's Day yesterday(May 10, 2020) and everyone was joyous in spreading their love to their moms.

There are no words left in the dictionary to put down how astonishing and valiant our mothers are. 

Mothers are the one who is most annoyed with their children behavior and husbands absurdity but yet remains tranquil for peace and understanding to maintain the discipline of the family.

I remember when my mother used to chase the whole house just to catch my brother because of his unacceptable behavior and then used to tell me to catch hold of him so he doesn't run, then enters my father who would run towards him and make an escape for his son to run away and hide somewhere.

This exercise is certain in each and every Indian Home.

But that's the pleasuring part and joyous moment to be captured

I can surely say that I can't be alike as what my mom is and has done for the family, and I can tell my kids will surely quote me with " The Imperfect Mom to the Perfect Kids and Sane Partner". just kidding

In this century where every woman is goal-driven and who are so aspirant towards their life will be imperfect yet a perfect definition to motherhood

MOTHERHOOD the word itself serves with responsibility and love towards her children in all the rigid upcoming circumstances she will be facing to raise them. Raising a child is poking your nose in every aspect of there life until they are capable enough to mind their own business. I recall the moment of my childhood where to my glance my mother used to take care of every minute thing from our getting up, school, homework, food, going back to sleep and the list goes on and on.

Those where the Happy To Live days and when we grow and see them still doing the same for us in a different manner it gives the pleasure of having on one permanent person in life who won't let to care less for ourselves.

As we hit the age of adolescence when the time comes where we actually disobey the culture that our parents thought us and become irrational. And this goes on until we become parents and seem to be treated back the same. There's a famous quote as all mothers adore to say " Jab tu maa banegi tab pata chalega" which means " when you will become a mother you will understand the pain"

Would be stating a not so talked matter and addressed importance in Brown Families which is " Mental Health". As we know Indian families have a culture of old tradition talks and norms that are to be carried forward to generations. But sometimes they don't understand when you see the country growing and the rapidness of growth cannot be acclaimed to the old generation thoughts which trigger the young developing minds.

People after a particular age are agitated to upfront their parents because that's the teaching that parents are always right and children cannot put their ideas because those ideas are disrespectful when those ideas make sense in this growing world.

I know when I was in college and was about to finish my graduation I wanted to talk to my parents about so many things that had clustered my brain cells and were eating me alive and because of the fear that I had in me I dealt with my problems individually without letting my parents know what I was going through which actually was a rough time.

I sometimes feel our  parents should sit with us and not bring their nonjudgemental thoughts and listen to their kids to understand their mental state of mind because sometimes they are more  stressed than they seem and are knowledgable to the understanding of the problem

A little support towards the issue will make you more affectionate towards your kid the way you felt when they were little and tender. And also will make you realize the real problem the kid go through in their daily life.

To sum it up, Each and every mother is a blessing to their children perfectly or imperfectly as they give their all life in just making them the finest and strongest.

Because I know my mom is the strongest, purest and bravest soul and I owe her for making me so robust and developing me to face this fearful world independently with immense confidence and cultural ethics and teaching of a good life.